This week, I knew I wanted to share how I made my mom friends… Rhode Island New Moms Connection. But, my real message is: find a group. It is how I found my tribe. The village that helps me raise the family.
When I was pregnant, I found a group that was meeting and asked a friend (who was also pregnant) to join with me. She hesitated, and decided not to. I already felt alone… and now felt stuck. But, I went hunting for my place, and this friend and I… we are not friends anymore, which I miss. I know much of it has to do with the fact that she had a lot of established friendships here, where I did not.
But I digress.
What I really mean, is that with parenthood, things will change. Friends will change. Not all. Not even for everyone. But for many, and especially for me.
But we all belong somewhere.
PHOTO FROM RHODE ISLAND NEW MOMS CONNECTION
I am incredibly thankful that I found that somewhere. I love the women who run the groups, who have become friends, confidants, and my biggest supporters. Through groups, I’ve met best friends, a mentor (and great friend), a wonderful group with so much diversity in life, parenting and relationships that I find myself growing every day. I love that we meet with the kids, babysit for each other, and love to meet up for a drink without the young, too.
Sometimes it is scary to take that leap- to go into the unknown. To join a group, in a new place, that we’re not sure will accept us. But I promise you, there are always open arms. There will always be a friend.
PHOTO FROM RHODE ISLAND NEW MOMS CONNECTION
So, tell me about a friend of yours. How did you find your tribe? Link-up your post below.
It is hard to make new friends when there are kids involved since parents are busy in their own little “world”. I am glad you found people to have fun with! I did the same thing here.
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So hard!
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It is so important to have a support system. I was just thinking about this the other day when people were sharing “best friends day” stuff on their Facebook walls. It got me to thinking – I don’t really have a best friend. Many acquaintances yes. The people I have considered my closest friends just seem to have chosen to drift away. It’s sad.
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So hard. I have the same sadness when I see friends who have known each other for 20 years… I don’t have that.
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide recently posted…Are you sure? Divulging information about your child’s disability.
Finding a tribe can be hard! I know that there are a group of local NYC/NJ-area bloggers whom I consider to be good friends, and it’s always nice to bond with them over similar experiences! 🙂
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That’s awesome!
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide recently posted…Are you sure? Divulging information about your child’s disability.