I’ve always been a fairly routine person. Everything had a place, a home, in its organized room in its designated spot. I even liked my own place to read to be unchanging as a kid. I’ve always been a reader and always liked nooks (I even fell asleep in a stack in my elementary school library and there was a hunt for me)- I favor a spot where I can settle in and remain un-bothered for hours. For me, in Rhode Island, that place was the Newport Cliff Walk.It is a huge open space with lots of people, none of whom want to bother or be bothered with. Perfection.
In college I would escape there, even in the dead of night, to clear my head. A good book, blanket, flashlight and thermos of coffee were all I needed. Hours logged reading after the sun set, settled over the water on a hill now fenced from walkers, where hundreds would pass in a day, and no one said a word. For me, this was bliss. And I began to miss it, even now as I write this, I’m barely 3 chapters into Harry Potter, which I’ve been trying to read for weeks.
The thing is, my favorite reading spot is no longer dictated by the place, nor the story, but by the people. Cuddled into the smallest bed or a chair made for one is now a privilege I’ve been given, more precious than that of the ability to read is the ability to read to my children.
We head to the library a few times a month to pick up new stories and sharing the giggles, voices, imagination and comfort stories bring now represents my reading spot. A place in my heart and not a place where I sit.
I’m sure that someday, I will read Harry Potter, and I will love each book as I’ve loved each movie, but until that day comes I’ll soak up every word of Peppa Pig, The Critters and every version of Frozen that’s out there. I feel like I’m at the point in parenthood where we do sacrifice a bit of “me” time for a lot of “them” time, but it doesn’t last forever and I want to be immersed in it all. I want to read every book we can and try each character voice I’ve got in me. There’s a someday for me reading a book, but not for another chance at childhood- and I’m embracing that with gusto!
What is your reading spot? How has it evolved with time?
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Susan Worth-LaManna says
Love this! And the video, of course! We all to to have a reading spot.
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
It’s so nice to have “your” spot!
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Tammi @ My Organized Chaos says
Cute video! I love our reading spots, they are so comfy. Though I wouldn’t pass up a spot to read on the beach! 🙂
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Ahhh, the beach! What a wonderful place!
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CouponGal says
i never thought about having a reading spot in my apartment 🙁
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Carve out just a little spot for yourself!
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Nancy says
I don’t think I have a reading spot! Love your red arm chair, looks so comfortable.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
It is my favorite chair ever!
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Kimberly Bonham says
Love that red arm chair!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Thanks! It was passed on to me from another mama. I am very blessed to have it!
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Angie Scheie says
This is great! I long to be at the stage you are at. Enjoy that cuddly reading time! :). Sorry I messed up on the prompts for this. I will be back on track next week I promise!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I’m so excited you joined in! I loved your family post!
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Kelly Hutchinson says
I just made a reading spot in my daughter’s room a few months ago. I love that you made one for yourself as well as for Adelaide.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I love watching the kids take on good habits- like reading!
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Shannon Peterson says
I love escaping in a good book 🙂 In our old house I had the perfect chair but it’s sitting in storage while we rent and until we find a new perfect home unfortunately 🙁
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I hope that perfect house comes soon!
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Aubrey says
I love to read. I have for as long as I can remember. I used to read in my comfy rocking chair until it broke. I no longer have a reading spot. Maybe that’s why I stopped reading so much. I should make a new one. Thanks for this post.
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I hope you find a new spot soon!
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Jesica H says
So cute, love the today and someday idea!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
She loves chapter books… I’m thinking I can get her to listen to me read Harry Potter to her!
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Jennifer says
Yes! Get that girl the Harry Potter books as soon as she’s able to read them! They are going to be classics, I just know it. Love those books!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I agree!
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Scott says
I have a special reading spot too, but cannot post a photo of it. Like many others, it has a ‘seat’ and a flush handle! 😉
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Ahh, the throne of reading 🙂
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Christi says
My reading spot is curled up in bed, or in the corner of our sectional with a big blanket. I like to be cozy when I read. 🙂
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Cozy is the best!
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Cara (@StylishGeek) says
I enjoyed this post! I have several reading spots in my home (that my cats love to occupy too). Thanks for sharing 🙂
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I love curling up with my big pup and reading, but the kids seems to take him over these days!
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Amber Edwards says
i have a lot of reading spots in my house. My favorite is the chair in front of the fire place. But I often don’t get to enjoy it because every time i sit down, I get a preschooler who wants cuddles. So that is how my time is spent instead of reading. But it is so worth it.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I want a fireplace! I feel like in front of one is the perfect spot!
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MItch says
I do not have a reading spot, but that seems like a great idea! And I love your list of challenges for the year!
Mitch
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Thanks MItch!
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Jeanine says
This is wonderful! I need to find myself a comfy reading sport. Especially for our nightly reads with the kids! Love your chair!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I love the kids curled up with me, it’s the best!
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Tess says
I wish I had a comfy reading spot. A place at the beach would be nice.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
So nice!
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Jenn says
Awww I loved this. I dont have an actual spot, its usually where the kids are the least noisy in my house Ill make a place for myself.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Haha! Sounds like the perfect spot!
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Lisa Bristol says
I have a little spot i like to sit when i am reading or drawing. It is important to have a space to call your own to relax in.
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
That is so true!
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Debra says
So sweet! My daughter and I are both avid readers……started her off with a corner of books and now she’ll read anywhere! anytime! 🙂
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
That is awesome!!!
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lisa says
My reading spot has to be someplace with good lighting and a really comfy chair or couch!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Sounds about right to me! I hate low light reading. Kills my head!
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Autumn @Mamachallenge says
I love reading with my son! Watching him learn and start reading harder books is pretty amazing.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I can’t wait for that moment!
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Jillian Fisher says
We might be moving into a house soon and I would love to do something like this for my boys. It looks so cute and we love reading.
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I love moving… creating spaces is my favorite thing to do!
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Erinn says
My son is six we have read every night together since he was an infant. His bed is our reading spot
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
That’s so sweet!
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valmg @ Mom Knows It All says
I love to read. My favorite place at the moment is one section of our couch that’s sort of like a lounge.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Sounds super comfy!
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Katriza @ Everything Home Life says
I love this challenge! Great ideas! Thanks!
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eliz frank says
My challenge in the last few years is getting disciplined enough to get off the internet and read. Add to that a back injury, and you can imagine how grateful I get when I finish a book. Everything changes over time, and I know that going with the flow and making more effort will help me too. 🙂
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Sounds like a great goal you’re really working towards!
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Rosey says
I remember reading the Harry Potter series with my son. He’s 26 now! Time flies. 🙂
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Wow- yes it does!
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Ashley Servis says
I really like this challenge. I will have to link up sometime. Thanks for sharing your favorite reading spot. I love that you read to your child and that is a great memory they will cherish. I am working on my degree in teaching and we just read about parents not reading to their children like they used to. I hope when I become a parent I read to my children all the time like you. Sacrifice is worth it for your children. One day they will be able to read all by themselves and won’t want you to cuddle with them during that time, so I am glad you are embracing the moments while they are here. Have a great weekend.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I wish you so much luck finishing your degree! I was read to a lot as a kid, and I want my kids to have that too. Reading is a whole different world in each book!
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Maggie says
I , too, am a reader (and I work in a library!) but you’re right! When your kids are little you read to them and give up that time for yourself! Someday, Danielle steel, someday!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
lol. So true!
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Yona Williams says
I never had a ‘reading spot’ when I was younger, it was mostly me reading cuddled up on my bed as a child. As I got older (and could wander a bit from the homefront), I did like to take a book up to this bench under a tree-lined walkway to a really small church building situated at the college up the street from my parent’s house. I never encountered any people going to the church, but students walked to and from classes a little ways away. They were completely invisible to me as I read. I loved the view from this spot, and how I felt hidden yet surrounded by nature. They also had the flowers that attracted hummingbirds, so if you were lucky, you might see one in the summertime.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
That sounds like the most perfect place!
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Debi (thedeb83) says
I recently added a chair to our bedroom for my reading spot. I used to just read in bed but it would get difficult sometimes to read there, and the light from my iPad would bother my boyfriend sometimes. Now I have a little spot by the window with a blanket and it’s so nice to relax and read! (PS you can read Harry Potter even before your child is ready, I love that series and now find it even better reading it around again for my stepdaughter.)
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I think I am going to read it to her… I am excited! Thank you for suggesting it!
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Brenda says
Aw! I love reading and my mom used to read to all of us for an hour every night before bed. I really loved it as a kid.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Reading to the kids at night is the best!
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Debi says
I haven’t had a set reading spot in years. I use to love to take a hot bath and read. That was before kids of course.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Haha! A bath with kids. Right?! I think the last book I read in the bath was a princess waterproof book, and my toddler was in the bath, not me 😀
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Always Gabby says
How cool is that? Well, I have a nook now in my room and it’s great to get away and read.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
That is great! I love nooks!
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