Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me,
I lift my lamp beside the golden door!
I can think of nothing more appropriate to say today of all days- especially in our current political state. The argument to build walls brings about both national and deeply personal issues. We don’t need more walls. We need a bigger table. There is always room if we make it.
As we make our move from first to forever, we are still riddled with the same anxieties, the same what-ifs, the same there’s never enough conundrum. Space, time, money… but we have food and shelter. We have family and friends, and, most importantly, we have our village. Our tribe.
This past weekend I was blessed with a couple of hours of fruit picking with my mother-in-law and the girls, and then 4 hours of time to work thanks to an amazing mother’s helper lent to me by her amazing mother. Watching this young woman was a breath of fresh air… and hearing her get Millie to laugh made my heart soar. Getting those precious hours gave me back time during the week, too. Time to spend with the girls, not trying to find time to work. The meat of my week is spent nose in laptop writing, editing and telling our story… a story that unfolds better when I am not chasing a soon-to-be one year old up the stairs! And time better spent making that story happen.
Sometimes I forget that we have more than we need. I need to remember that our table yearns for more chairs to squeeze in those amazing friends, the few moments we get to spend together- less walls and reasons why we can’t. And most important, I must remember to gather more people at that table to call my tribe. It’s not the quantity of interaction, or time, or money- it’s the quality.
Make a bigger table.
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Angie Scheie says
Beautifully written, and such an important thing to remember. It’s so easy to get stuck focused on our day to day life and little world. Taking the time to broaden that world and spread joy is well worth it:).
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
So worth it!
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Robin Rue (@massholemommy) says
We definitely have more than we need. Thanks for the reminder to share more of what we have with people that might need it.
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
<3
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Michelle F. says
This is such a nicely written post. My family has been doing well so it’s time we share that with friends.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Tis the season!
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Amanda says
I absolutely love this quote about having a longer table. It really does a great job explaining how excited I am about our expanding family!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Love <3
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Jenny says
Everyone is so busy worrying about themselves, that they don’t take the time to think of others. I think ‘make a bigger table’ is an excellent (and much needed) piece of wisdom.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Me too!
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rika says
Great article, sending valuable message! Family is so important. I love your idea about long dining table
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Family is truly the most important.
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Elizabeth O. says
I love those lines from the quote. There are a lot of ways to remember the good ol’ days and this post helps a lot.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
xo
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Jeanine says
What a great reminder. Sometimes we have way more than we need, and it’s good to sometimes get a little perspective. Great message!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Thank you!
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CourtneyLynne says
I’m all about helping others! I have plenty in my life and want to make sure others don’t go without!
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
YOu rock!
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Rosey says
People do like to give, if they offer, but not if someone asks. The trouble is, if someone is at the point they have to ask, then they really need the help. I will remember to make my table bigger.
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I just like to invite people to the table… and hope they come!
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Ourfamilyworld says
I love the quote! It’s true, you should make a longer table instead of building a higher fence. This is your way of showing how grateful you are for all the blessings you’ve received.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
<3
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Ron@MichiganHomes says
If all people will follow this quote, there will be no hunger at all. Thanks for this one, inspires me a lot!
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I hope, someday, we end hunger!
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Stephanie of The TipToe Fairy says
What a beautiful quote! I love when we have people over and I have to keep adding more chairs to the table. A full house is a nice feeling.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
I totally agree!
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MsCrookedHalo says
I love the quote “make a bigger table” not only personally but it should be used on the national level as well.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
YES!
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HlLesha says
I have never heard this quote before, but it is so true! Therefore, I agree with it wholeheartedly.
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Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
It really is a great one!
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Dhemz Apdian - Dias says
These are such nice words to live by. Great quote!
Chelley @ A is for Adelaide says
Thanks!
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