There are some things that just boil the blood. For the most part, while I don’t agree with “teaching thick skin” to my kids, I do force myself to toughen up. But… there’s always a but.
If anyone who reads this blog thinks that Survival of the Fittest is something that doesn’t apply to my child, that her medical treatment isn’t something that should be covered, I have a few concerns about your fitness level. I question your ability to survive. I wonder, if the application of survival of the fittest should apply, why are you not dead?
From behind the “safety” of your IP address (guess what, that’s NOT hiding your identity), you’ve sent emails about how my insurance should continue to fight me because if my child was not different (I will never repeat your words), she wouldn’t be a financial burden to the insurance system. How I put her through life. A barrage of your friends agree with you- that’s why you feel you can write to me in such a manner. So I ask you a few questions.
How many people from behind their LCD screens, reading these very words just took a medication? Something as innocent as Tylenol or ED meds (which can be a sign of needing to see a cardiologist). Maybe something serious like blood thinners or insulin? Have you needed a blood transfusion? Ever had pneumonia? Have you broken a bone? Did you know you could die from an infection if a broken bone is left untreated? Now, how many of you also have children that are not fit enough to survive?
Survival of the fittest is not about surviving because you’re the fittest, it’s surviving all of the things that come your way. They are what make you “fit”. Fit to survive.
The 7,000+ members of the LPA who strive for awareness. Those people who have gone through and the parents who continue to push through surgeries, while groups band together for support and love- an outpouring of strangers who become family. I don’t think my daughter is amazing because she has a form of dwarfism. I think she is amazing because she’s taught me more about humility and humanity. And humanity is kindness. And those who are kind, survive.
Kindness is to love, but not blindly. To lead, but know how to follow. To not fear the unknown, but those who do not seek to know. The strong, but not the tyrannical.
Survival of the fittest… those who surround themselves with who and what they need. Who will support them and who they support in return (support does not mean agree with). Who adapt society to them, adapt themselves when they can’t, and create change to improve the world. Yes. The world. Those who survive, are the kind.